The genesis for the idea of City Kids, a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, dates back to when I was a kid, growing up in Chevy Chase, Maryland, a suburb outside of Washington, DC. Early on, I had academic challenges. I realized that I didn't learn the same way that other kids did, so I felt different. Sitting in the classroom, taking class after-class, day-after-day, I did not feel I was absorbing the information. I had a difficult time staying still at my desk, trying to learn the traditional way. So, needless to say, I didn't have tremendous academic success.
Just like me, my father grew up in D.C, so he knew the community well. He sponsored people to help them with their struggle to confront their drug and alcohol addiction issues and in their desire to stay clean and sober. I would go with my father to the inner-city, which exposed me to an entirely different way-of-life. These experiences were some of my strongest memories, seeing how my father made a real impact in others' lives.
Because learning the traditional way wasn't working for me, my parents and I looked for a school that offered a more empirical experience. We found such a school in California that offered a nontraditional method of learning—a hands-on experience in the great outdoors. Although my surroundings changed, my personal challenges did not. Something clicked when I went to one particular school, a school that had an outdoor leadership program. I was exposed to group discussions, hiking, self-discovery and leadership programs. I uncovered skills within myself that I never knew existed and I finally found something that I could relate to. This program helped me feel like I finally fit in.
After college, most of my friends knew what they wanted to do as a career; however, I did not. All I knew was that I wanted to do something meaningful, something that I would enjoy and a way that I could give back to others in the community. This was an essential component.
In the beginning, I wasn't sure of my plans so I began to conceptualize my idea. Gradually I formed a more concrete concept and mission – "To help other boys and girls who are affected by life and personal challenges with a way to cope and rise above those challenges." The overall goal was to spark inspiration, provide practical life skills, instill self confidence and build character in at-risk kids. City Kids is all about equipping the kids with the necessary tools and knowledge to achieve personal, educational and career success in life.
So I started pitching my idea to various organizations like the Boys and Girls Club of Greater Washington, Martha's Table and the Cafritz Foundation. I just took to the streets, walked in, introduced myself and explained my idea to them. Some organizations put me off while others were receptive but skeptical. Being persistent, my mix of passion for this idea and my feelings of personal empowerment enabled me to get City Kids up and-running.
My wife and I had previously lived out West, so we knew the mountains would be a special place to launch our efforts. Within a short period of time, we found ourselves in Wyoming looking for an ideal location for City Kids. Just landing at the airport and getting off the plane was a breathless experience. I literally was at the foot of the snow-capped, awe inspiring Grand Teton Mountain Range. Not a cloud in the sky, I was hit by the cool, crisp mountain air that was devoid of Washington D.C's congestion, honking horns and tall buildings.
"…I now find myself building an organization that positively impacts other kids' lives who started out just like me. Knowing that we made a real